miguel wrote:I will take the bait.
You could have deleted all of the pederasty at its appearance. It does the forum no good to keep dredging it up for all readers to see. Other than the pederasty, I had no problems with Tad's postings.
My final decision was made based on a phone call where Tad relayed that he had molested a 12 year old boy while he (Tad) was in a position of trust (scouting, in this case) regarding the boy. I asked Tad if he felt that it was wrong for a 30 year old man to have a sexual relationship with a 12 year old boy. He replied that he didn't see a problem other than the consequences dealt by society. He couldn't seem to grasp that a 12 year old boy does not have the maturity to enter into that kind of relationship.
Now I can be forgiving of many things if people are repentant. But Tad gave me no assurance whatsoever that he would not repeat this behavior. Since I have no control over the ages of people on this forum, and since I do not monitor any PM messages sent between members, I decided that it was prudent to ban him from the forum.
As a side note, Tad's inability to see a problem with his 12yr/30yr relationship reflects a systemic problem in Tad's reasoning. I believe this is the root of many of Tad's problems in other areas. If Tad can defend and justify his sexual relationship with a 12 year old boy, then I believe he can defend and justify anything that he does or says. I believe that's been his fundamental problem on all of these forum discussions.
Having said all of that, I still believe that Tad can contribute to the sport of hang gliding in many ways. I am open to any suggestions on how we can do that while not exposing our younger members to any potential risk. Thanks.