Bob Kuczewski wrote:What causes people to leave is knowing that they cannot justify what they've done. You'll notice that Red still hasn't answered the simple question that I asked him many posts ago:
To Red: Can you quote for us what rule was in place at the time of Joe's banning that justified - in your own mind - Joe being banned?
That's not a hard question unless Red has no answer. Then it's real hard.
Warren, if you're allowed to call out Jim Gaar, and Rick is allowed to call out the whole sport of paragliding, then I have a right to call out the people who stood by and watched Joe Faust be banned for no reason that they can justify.
Bob,
When two people (being neither you nor I) have a dispute between them, it is none of my business how they resolve that dispute. That personal standard will not be changed by you, or by anything you may say. I do
not intrude. I am not obliged to explain anything to anybody (my Constitutional right, if you care to check on that), and
certainly not to you. You DID swear an oath to defend my rights, which also means you should not attack them.
I know that you have a beef with another forum owner. This conflict is the predictable result of two control freaks, colliding head-on. It has caused you untold aggravation and frustration over these many years, but you are OBSESSED with this non-repairable mess that you have perpetuated. This obsession is just not healthy for you, but again, that is none of my business, either. I know, of course, that you can run off into a corner and write yet another bad speech for me to deliver according to your orders, as if those words were my words. You have told me that I must make that delivery.
You have used almost every form of manipulation (character assassination, insults, innuendo, bullying,
invented fantasies of right and wrong, and endless harangues) to try to make me obey your orders. What you want me to do is to perpetrate a
LYING FRAUD on another forum, spouting your words and ideas as if they were mine. I will NOT do that. Maybe in your world such behavior is normal, or acceptable, but in my world, it is
not. The only place where you will
ever see me deliver your speeches will be inside a closed mind, not in the real world.
I have refused your every attempt to coerce my cooperation in this proposed
LYING FRAUD of yours, and I can assure you, my refusal will not change. You may want to set yourself up as the final arbiter of right and wrong, but I will
never accept that, about you. I run by
my headlights, and not by yours. You rail against LIARS, but you seem to have no qualms about having me doing that, if it might benefit you. For the record, I regard honesty as a lifetime goal, not as a cheap standard that is discarded whenever it is inconvenient.
I do want you to know, it is now, and forever will be a total waste of your time and energy to continue trying to make me follow your orders. I will NOT do that, which is my automatic response to anybody issuing orders to me. In this case, my refusal is reinforced by my perception that your LYING FRAUD is to be the end result of those immoral orders and endless harangues.
Your unending publicizing of another forum that you envy/hate strikes me as being completely counter-productive here, but that is your specialty, I think.