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Red wrote:Bob,
*LOL* . . .
That's a BIG laugh Red. I take it as being disrespectful.
Red wrote: . . . I have heard it said that insanity is doing the same unproductive thing repeatedly, and expecting different results at some point. . .
And sometimes when someone isn't listening perhaps or pig headed, a point has to be made more than once before it sinks in.
Red wrote: When two people (being neither you nor I) have a dispute between them, it is none of my business how they resolve that dispute.
We could all agree with that statement at times. But there are other times (when the dispute involves one or both parties that we care about) when it BECOMES our business to help resolve the situation. In the context of your statement above, it seems that you have no business or interest in either parties. But they are both hang glider pilots (not sure when Jack last flew). One is a founding member of the USHGA with information to get out to the HG world, and the other controls an information portal for hang gliding topics. But for you, it's none of your business? I would ask then, what kind of member are you of the hang gliding community? Your attitude is not that of a leader but more of a frightened bystander who rationalizes his inaction by saying "I have every "right" to ignore the problem. It's not MY business." That attitude places you outside the community. That makes you an apathetic outsider.
Red wrote: That personal standard will not be changed by you, or by anything you may say. I do not intrude. I am not obliged to explain anything to anybody (my Constitutional right, if you care to check on that), and certainly not to you. You DID swear an oath to defend my rights, which also means you should not attack them.
Your "personal standard" is then to not be a positive contributing member of the community regarding disputes among two high standing members. With the context here being your (philosophical?) position that you do nothing regarding the dispute between two other parties. In so doing, you are defining yourself as invisible, powerless and afraid(?). Reminds me of that descriptive word "sheeple".
Red wrote: I know that you have a beef with another forum owner. This conflict is the predictable result of two control freaks, colliding head-on.
No, Red, the conflict is over one control freak (Jack the Axe) violating his own terms of service and banning a founding member of the USHGA from his site for no good reason. But then Jack might think that his paranoid belief that Joe F is a Bob K puppet is a good reason to ban Joe. But if we withhold our mental judgements of Jack, then once again, Jack has no good reason to ban Joe (a upstanding member of the hang gliding community who is trying to spread some information out to HG world). Either way it is JACK who is violating his own definition of what sg.org is supposed to be about. Being a member of Jack's community I would think that would bother you. But, as you've stated above, "it's none of [your] business".
And calling Bob K a "control freak" is another unfounded insult. Bob can't post his objections to Joe's treatment on Jack's site, so he uses his soapbox here to urge others to speak up and speak out. In his remote capacity Bob is doing his best to help FIX an unjust action taken by Jack the Axe against Joe F. An action that harms the larger HG community and violates the claimed mission of sg.org. What Bob is doing is his best to stop an injustice from his (remote) position of leadership here on the US Hawks. You insult him and stay quiet and afraid and could care less about the larger HG community generally, or the smaller one at sg.org. How does that define you?
Red wrote:It has caused you untold aggravation and frustration over these many years, but you are OBSESSED with this non-repairable mess that you have perpetuated.
Perhaps it is non-repairable, but those could be the words of a defeatist. Obsessed is also a strong word with a negative connotation (i.e., insult). Bob can be obstinate, single minded and determined. But I've never seen him pursue a goal, that if accomplished, would not make the (HG) world a better place.
Red wrote: This obsession is just not healthy for you, but again, that is none of my business, either.
And if "contradiction" doesn't come to everyone's mind as they read the above, I would be amazed. Red, you like to not get involved and to stay silent over at sg.org, but here on the US Hawks you have SO MUCH to say? What is the difference between SG.org and the US Hawks? Could it be that on sg.org "not getting involved" and "keeping quiet" mitigates your fear of being banned? Could it be that you speak out here because you don't have any such fear?
Red, the difference in your words and actions here on the US Hawks as compared to over on sg.org DEFINE this hang gliding forum site as the better of the two. Not because what you say here is correct, but because you can SAY IT without fear of being silenced/banished from the group.
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I'll stop here for now. But I will continue if necessary, or maybe just because I enjoy projecting a differing point of view to a party who seems to be seeing a little too much "red".
PS - Not sure where I'm getting this feeling from, but I think that Red may have given his password for the the US Hawks to Jack the Axe. Things would make so much more sense that way.