Dave Kilbourne Leaves Us
Posted on the Oz Report and Hanggliding.org:
I didn't know Dave, but I've seen his interview a couple dozen times in "Big Blue Sky". I mostly remember his deliberation about his first soaring flight. He said he was worried that others would follow him ... and they might be killed in the process. Then he said it came to him clearly ... that was their life and this was his. He was going for it.
It's sad that someone with the thoughtfulness to think so considerately of others has found life on this earth to be so unbearable that he would leave us of his own choice. Maybe this is a lesson we could all learn. Maybe we could try to make life on earth a little better for all of the Dave Kilbourne's among us.
I see Dave's loss as a reminder for us to make this world a more tolerable place for each other. Thanks Dave. I'm sorry you gave so much to remind us of that simple truth.
Bob Kuczewski
All,
Sad to report the passing of Dave Kilbourne in N.Z. The following is the most current information we have.
To all of Dave Kilbourne’s friends and pilots.
It is with deep regret that Dave passed away on his birthday February 1st. After an extended period of depression he took his life. He has been living six months in NZ and six months in the States. Pam and Dave were to leave for the United States the day before, but Dave changed his mind and decided to come a little later.
Pam had his body cremated and will be spreading some ashes in New Zealand and some in the USA. Dave always liked the missing man formation and wanted to have this done for him. We will plan this in the future. He is now in a peaceful place.
Over the past year he had stopped taking his meds for depression. When the doctors got him back on them they did not take effect. He let his body deteriorate past the point where he couldn’t start his plane (hand propped). Pam recalls Dave telling her that if he was going to go, he wanted to “fly west”.
We will miss him.
Regards
Bill Ingram
Vari-Eze pilot.
I didn't know Dave, but I've seen his interview a couple dozen times in "Big Blue Sky". I mostly remember his deliberation about his first soaring flight. He said he was worried that others would follow him ... and they might be killed in the process. Then he said it came to him clearly ... that was their life and this was his. He was going for it.
It's sad that someone with the thoughtfulness to think so considerately of others has found life on this earth to be so unbearable that he would leave us of his own choice. Maybe this is a lesson we could all learn. Maybe we could try to make life on earth a little better for all of the Dave Kilbourne's among us.
I see Dave's loss as a reminder for us to make this world a more tolerable place for each other. Thanks Dave. I'm sorry you gave so much to remind us of that simple truth.
Bob Kuczewski

