Bob
One last reply to your suspicions and accusations.
bobk wrote:In that whole long post - on Sara's own club forum - you offered surprisingly little in the way of help to overcome the people who were persecuting her. In fact, as I mentioned, most of your post was all about you.
Guilty as charged. Yes it was a rambling self aggrandizing post mainly about my dashing flying exploits.
bobk wrote:Roger, it's not my goal to alienate you
No need I already feel alienated
bobk wrote:I'm sorry Roger, but none of it rings true.
Well OK If you don't think it rings true it must be so.
bobk wrote:When I talked with Sara about finding 5 members to become a USHPA Chapter she told me she could count on you and Derk. That would have made 5. You turned your back on her when she needed you. I suspect you were trying to walk a political fence between Sara and Mark and others, but sitting on that fence kept you from stepping up to help Sara when she was counting on you.
You can suspect all you like. Walking on a political fence? Eh really? Sara was counting on me? What about about counting on the founder/instigator of this new ”hawks” club the one that started it around a fire one night, but no she was counting on me. Maybe you should have helped Sara check out who was interested in joining a Lakeview Hawks club. Why did you with your websites national outreach not help Sara. In my mind you are the one that let Sara down by raising her expectations about a club without being able to deliver.She was counting on you the clubs founder.
bobk wrote:We all make mistakes. Warren has suggested that I should have deleted those nasty posts rather than replying to them. He might have been right. Sara told me that you and Derk were her friends and I was counting on you to step in and combat those posts to publicly support Sara. I felt that confronting them and defeating them would be better for Sara than sweeping them under the carpet. But again, that depended on you - a supposed friend - to do your part. You did not.
I did not think answering or conversing with obviously fictitious people was going to be any help to Sara. Alternately it was quite highly likely that I would be conversing with one individual behind all those personalities. So you were counting on me and I let Sara down?? I just love your logic.
bobk wrote: I don't know how much influence you held over Derk when it came to creating the lakeviewhanggliding.org site and intentionally snubbing Sara. Only you and Derk will know that. But from my many discussions with Derk, I suspect that was more your preference than his.
You suspect a lot, and your accusation that creating lakeviewhanggliding.org was somehow “intentionally snubbing” Sara is so far from the actual reality , but you are of course welcome to your own suspicions and conclusions. I hold influence over Derk?? Really now you are surmising about who has influence over who as well!! Maybe its a conspiracy??
bobk wrote:One of our members sent this to me in an email message:
Roger will most likely not respond to your pressing questions - or, as is his nature, blame others.
Thank Phil for his concern and his psychoanalysis about my nature. I am sure he had a lot of other interesting tidbits to tell as well. You guys should get on great together!
If you have some really pressing questions please do list them simply and I will try to answer them if possible.
bobk wrote:I replied:
Roger contributed 4 posts in 3 years ... and at least one of them was an advertisement for a club to undermine the Lakeview Hawks. So if he decides to boycott our forum ... it won't be much of a loss.
Did I mention I do not often contribute to HG forums? …..and yes a shameless advertisement to undermine the Lakeview Hawks!!!
Actually boycott would be the incorrect word to use. If I do not post here again it will not be as a punishment or protest, a snub, a shun, turning my back, an embargo or a sanction. It will be simply my choice. As evil thoughtless and heartless as that may seem to you.
I am truly sorry I opened my keyboard to let folks know about "Poetic Justice" and your friend and club mates demise 1 and a 1/2 years ago. I had thought being club member and friend of Saras you would have already known.
This whole chain of events could be said to have started this day (that as you pointed out earlier in this thread)
<<I pointed out the benefits that the Torrey Hawks have gotten in terms of bringing pilots together. The young woman thought it was a great idea and I didn't hear any real objections from anyone else around the fire. So that's when the Lakeview Hawks were formed.>>
No benefits have ever been realized from the Lakeview Hawks in bringing pilots together, in fact it has had exactly the opposite effect. In hindsight now, maybe starting a club around a fire one night while visiting a town some 750 miles from home where “One young woman thinks it is a great idea and you did not hear any real objections around the fire” was obviously not in the future best interests of Sara, despite your desire to open up “hawks” clubs wherever you could. The perfect storm brewed in Lakeview and we now know the rest of the story. If you want to believe I have influence over people and suspect that chambers of commerce pressure me, that I shunned, snubbed, undermined, influenced, you can believe those things. Maybe its a conspiracy??
Bob it is funny that we have never actually met but you sure seem to have some very good suspicions about my actions and motives. You are welcome to them, they are yours. You can share emails with Phil about my nature how I blame others and let suicidal people down. I hope you enjoy yourselves.
Please Bob do try and start any new Hawks clubs responsibly and try not to start one and then expect other people to step in to assist and fix stuff for you.
I feel sufficiently alienated now, I shall breathlessly await further dialogue about your suspicions and my intentions and nature.
I have however severely hit my forum defense budget ceiling and will endeavor to refrain from any further dialogue here. I feel "Lakeview Hawks'ed" out.
Roger