Joe to a RHG pilot yesterday or so wrote:I am no longer trying to get back to being a poster in Jack's forum because of his published and practicing polices and ways and means. Thank you for your actions toward an unban result--appreciated. Even if unbanned, I'd not publish in Jack's forum until severe changes are made in his policies and practices.
I don't remember how old I was when my peers began having this kind of conversation:
We don't want you here!
Fine. I don't want to be here!!
I'm pretty sure it was sometime before 4th grade. It's a natural reaction: "You don't want me, well I don't want you". The "we don't want you" tactic has been used again and again by the thugs at Torrey. I have videos of the "we don't want you" part. And even though there was a screaming 4th grade voice inside me, I never gave them the satisfaction of hearing me say "fine, I don't want to be here." That's the reaction they wanted and they haven't gotten it to this day.
It's interesting to look back at how that tactic was also used in the HGAA. I think two of our good members left that way ... by essentially self-banning. The same has happened at USHPA. This is a place where Frank and I agree. People can be more effective working from the inside than from the outside (assuming that they're actually working). That's why USHPA expelled me. They surely wanted to make me less effective at achieving reform.
It's also important to remember that by giving up, you not only reward the bullies, but you also abandon the others who haven't given up and are still working for change. It's like dropping the police report just when the bad guys are caught. The police (who may have risked their lives to make the arrest) can't help but be disappointed. Also, imagine how ineffective Rosa Parks would have been if she'd said "Fine. I don't fit on this racist bus anyway" and stomped off rather than be arrested and bring the matter to court.
Just a few things to think about.